I only waitressed in a strip club for about a month. Didn't really make a whole lot of money, but I completely understand what you mean here. The guys that come in are just regular guys...husbands, brothers, dads, etc.

It made me look at men differently too...the way they'd behave toward the dancers, even the servers at times made me wonder who they were outside of the building, or who they pretended to be.

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