Girl, I was just thinking to myself…”does he not see how a pattern of negative behaviors in men might lead a woman to have a defensive mindset when it comes to dating?”

I don’t think he quite understands that it’s not just a “past experience” that we keep in the forefront of our minds, but PATTERNS of similar behavior, over and over again.

Anyway, you said it more eloquently than I ever could lol.

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